Valentine’s Day is a day when you have the opportunity to celebrate the love that you feel in your heart and experience in your life.
So why do so many people feel bad on this holiday?
Are you feeling like something is missing in your life? Maybe you feel alone, or you do not feel fulfilled in the relationships you have.
I completely understand and have felt that way at times in my life, too. Please know, however, that you are choosing these negative thoughts that make you feel bad. And, the more you believe and feel that love is missing from your life, the more you will experience the lack of love.
Why is this important? Because your feelings (not just your thoughts) affect the energy that you generate from within you, and that affects your life. Even if you try to force a positive thought about your situation, if you aren’t feeling it, you will continue to find yourself longing for more.
You may be thinking to yourself, but Janet, I am alone or missing great love in my life. As I often say to my coaching clients, “Do you want to keep looking at your reality or begin to create a new reality?”
Desire for more is a good thing because it can fuel your ambition for a better life. Notice I chose the word, “ambition” because ambition feels better than anguish. Ambition is when you know that you have the power within you to create a better outcome for your life. From a feeling of ambition, you take positive action. Anguish, on the other hand, creates pain and suffering.
Which one do you feel is going to create the type of change that will create a more successful life filled with love? I’m certain you recognize that ambition – or some feeling that is positive, uplifting, and inspiring, is the key to success.
So, how do you shift the love in your life from lack to luster?
Your life on the outside is a reflection of what is happening on your inside. It is so liberating to know that the power to change is already inside of you.
Let go of the feelings of lack or longing and begin to love your life. As you play around with these incredible ideas, you will soon find the most amazing love arrives in your life. You will realize that the wait was worth it because look at what you have learned about becoming a greater version of yourself. Now you know how to harness your inner power and begin to enjoy a more fulfilling experience every day of your life.
Happy Valentine’s Day!