You're Making it Harder Than it Has to Be
Do you believe that you must pay a steep price to get ahead or that something worth having is worth working very hard for?
Of course, you do.
I’m sure you’ve heard the term, “No Pain, No Gain” which is a proverb that means, “in order to make progress or to be successful, one must suffer.”
Have you suffered enough?
I hope you’ve reached the end of that rope that you’ve grabbed onto and are ready to be done with that way of living. It’s time to stop suffering and instead start succeeding.
When You Try HARD You Make it HARD to Try
I’m here to tell you that you’ve been making everything harder than it has to be. There is not only a better way to work and live but when you make what I call the Stressless Success Shift™ you get far better results and experience far more success in a far more fulfilling way from the work that you do.
You’ve been taught, probably your...
Have you ever experienced something that you thought was “bad” only to find out later it was actually a good thing?
What I’ve learned because of this, though, is that life becomes so much easier and more successful when you learn how to unleash your inner power over any given situation and your entire life. Once you do, you not only create a good outcome from something that appears to be bad, but you will no longer live fearing the next challenge that may come your way.
I’ve written before about how to reframe any situation from bad to better and learn skills of resilience in my blog, “Four Steps to Turn Any Situation Around and Create a New Reality.” This is all about changing the way you view any challenging situation.
But why wait until something “bad” happens to struggle and stress and...
REACTING and CREATING are an anagram: It’s as simple as moving a few letters around to create a different word that feels much better.
It sure is difficult not to react to what is happening around you. Believe me, I know. I continue to learn the hard way. By just accidentally being exposed to the news, for example, makes me feel awful inside. The more I feel awful, the worse my day becomes.
Do you notice how the feelings (and thus the energy) of anger and frustration start to well up inside of you when you begin to dwell on a problem? Well, you need to know that how you feel inside creates an energy that flows from you and impacts your life.
If your feelings generate the energy that flows from you and creates your life, do you really want to continue to react to life, which puts you in a hopeless place of negative feelings and energy?
Of course not.
Luckily, I’ve learned to be aware of this right away and do very...
Valentine’s Day is a day when you have the opportunity to celebrate the love that you feel in your heart and experience in your life.
So why do so many people feel bad on this holiday?
Are you feeling like something is missing in your life? Maybe you feel alone, or you do not feel fulfilled in the relationships you have.
I completely understand and have felt that way at times in my life, too. Please know, however, that you are choosing these negative thoughts that make you feel bad. And, the more you believe and feel that love is missing from your life, the more you will experience the lack of love.
Why is this important? Because your feelings (not just your thoughts) affect the energy that you generate from within you, and that affects your life. Even if you try to force a positive thought about your situation, if you aren’t feeling it, you will continue to find yourself longing for more.
You may be thinking to yourself,...
All of your ideas and experiences on goal-setting are about to change for the better.
If you’ve been blocked from achieving certain things in your life or find that goal-setting has become exhausting and uninspiring, then this blog is for you. This fresh insight will change everything for you. Prepare to be enlightened!
Yes, this is for real.
I finally discovered the missing piece that’s been blocking everyone from achieving certain goals. And I know how to fix the problem! It’s quite simple, but your awareness of this method and how you apply it is critical. You will see tangible results if you put this discovery to use.
Now, let’s get into it!
First, it is important to understand that science has proven that everything is energy and therefore, I’ve determined that energy is everything when it comes to understanding the truth behind achieving your goals and thus success. ...
Do you feel that joy is elusive and is only something that you experience at brief moments throughout your life?
Have you resigned yourself to believing that joy is something that is far too unobtainable with everything that is happening in the world and therefore, you shouldn’t even try?
Yes, these beliefs are all too common, especially lately.
But, is this how you want to live your life?
Are you really wanting to settle for status quo or are you ready to reach for a better life?
If you are a true high-performer, you never settle for status quo and since joy is the ultimate measure of a successful life, then you must not settle.
What if the joy you’ve been seeking (or have given up on) is right in the palm of your hands?
The problem is that you’ve been relying on outside circumstances to bring you joy. And when you do, joy becomes so elusive because you’ve given your power away to things you...
You control not only your day-to-day life but also your destiny.
Does that frighten you or inspire you?
There’s no need to feel frightened once you understand a key concept that has the power to change everything for you. Maybe you’re not frightened at all by the power you possess to control your destiny because you’ve already experienced some success in your life. You have no idea the level you’re about to reach in your life, though, and how wonderful and successful your life can be from this point forward.
I often write and speak about how the vibration that emanates from you reflects how you feel physically and emotionally. If you’re feeling bad, the negative energy surrounding you can create a negative outcome for your day and life. Through quantum physics, I’ve realized that how we, as the observers of our lives, create outcomes based on how we feel about our observations.
While this sounds complicated, it’s incredibly...
When you look at your life, do you always focus on what you wish was different?
Do you wish your job was better and that you had more money?
Do you notice what isn’t great about your relationships, home, body, or health?
We waste so much of our precious energy living in a state of lack instead of a state of luster. Instead of appreciating all that we have, we tend to focus on what we don’t have.
Now, there’s nothing wrong with wanting more and striving for greater success, love, and health in your life. Actually, always looking to see how you can get to the next level is a sign of being a true high performer, which I coach on and encourage. When you focus on everything you believe to be wrong instead of everything that is so brilliantly right, however, you block more good things from coming to you with ease and joy.
Why is this important? It’s a key to living a successful life, and there’s no better time than the season of...
Have you ever known someone who seems to get everything they want without even trying? Meanwhile, you’re striving and struggling just to get by and have never felt that you’ve been lucky in love or life.
Many believe there is no such thing as “true luck.” Instead, they state that you must become smarter to:
I’m sure you’ve seen this acronym before, but I don't agree.
How is it that you’ve learned from experts on success, love, and happiness, but you haven’t been able to achieve the success you desire? Maybe it’s not only knowledge but something else.
I’ve shared my great discoveries on the power of your energy, which comes from your feelings and not necessarily your thoughts, to create a better life. However, I recently gained a deeper understanding of my very own teachings to share with you.
One of my coaching clients had been working hard at...