“Life is Short. Kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly and forgive quickly.” –Paulo Coelho

This is a powerful quote from a great author, but what if you feel that love is missing from your life?

Are you waiting for some great love to show up at your door, hoping your significant other will change so that you can experience more love, or relying on someone else to make you happy?

If so, you may be missing a key point that is blocking love from your life. You’re giving all of your creative power away to some outside person or circumstance. It’s time to take back your inner power and create more love in your life. This article will not only help you improve your current relationships, but it will also help you create new, more fulfilling ones too.

Let me ask another question to make a point: If you are feeling angry, bitter, lonely, needy, unlovable, unattractive, etc., would you want to hang out with yourself? Probably not.

What you feel inside creates...

You can spend countless hours writing and repeating your goals, but I’m here to tell you that you won’t experience positive change — which you deserve — until you change your energy.

Tap into Expansive Energy

So, what do I mean when I say “energy”? I’m talking about the energy that emanates from you based on your feelings. You can think about achieving certain goals all you want, but if you’re not feeling the expansive energy of positive expectation, those goals won’t come to fruition. Or, achieving them will be very difficult, leading to a result that wasn’t quite what you envisioned for yourself. From an energy- or feeling-based perspective, what you give off is what you get back. 

You are a magnet to the feelings (not the thoughts) that you generate from within you. What happens around you is a reflection of what is happening inside of you. So, it is critical that you improve the way you feel while you define and...

You deserve to live a life that isn’t consumed by worry, stress, and fear. The energy those feelings generate will only create more of the same. You are a magnet to the feelings (not the thoughts) that emanate from you. Whatever you give out, you get back, and when you live in a constant state of worry, you create more reasons to worry, and soon, you feel like a victim—helpless to your environment.

Help Yourself Create a Better Life

It’s time to take back your power and create a better life. It’s actually far simpler than what others may teach you. All it takes is deliberate intention to change the way you feel and act based on those better feeling energies. 

Make the choice now, and don’t waste another minute.

You worry and stress about things because you inherently believe that by worrying, you somehow protect yourself. But that’s not true! Worry and stress actually build walls of resistance all around you, and working against those walls...

Stress Less with Stressless Success

While the holiday season is meant to bring about feelings of peace, joy, and happiness, it’s also a source of stress for many. All that is happening in the country and around the world may potentially amplify those feelings this year. According to various polls, more than 80% of us are experiencing more stress than usual. 

Chronic stress can wreak havoc on your body, well-being, and overall life. It puts your body into fight-or-flight mode, which causes blood to drain from the brain and into the extremities. Its biological purpose is to give you more power to fight or run; unfortunately, this leaves you unable to think clearly. Stress also weakens your immune system, which increases the likelihood of illness. On top of all that, it messes with your metabolism and melatonin, which is a sleep hormone, causing weight gain and exhaustion. 

As I explain in my latest best-selling book, Stressless Success: The Surprising Secrets to a Life...

The holidays are meant to be a time of gathering together to share good cheer. Any year, this preconceived idea of what the season “should be” can create or exacerbate feelings of loneliness for those who don’t have friends or family around or who feel lonely even when they’re with others. Now, with the latest lockdowns, COVID-19 restrictions, and suggestions from health advisors to limit the number of people at holiday celebrations, feelings of loneliness may become even more widespread and intense. 

However, I firmly believe that this is a time to experience more joy, not less, and to appreciate all the good we do have in our lives despite our struggles. But trying to force good feelings is NOT the answer. 

The Myth of Positive Thinking

Many prominent people speak and write about the power of positive thinking, and yes, it’s a great practice when things are already going your way. But when you feel lonely, you can’t just leap to false...

I know that you’ve been stressing and struggling with how to achieve success. Maybe you’re having a hard time just getting through the day. I promise you—I’ve been there.

Years ago, I was in the corporate world working in high-pressure, high-powered positions for Fortune 500 companies. I was a super-overachiever and experienced incredible success, but the stress and pressure took me down until I landed in the hospital debilitated by an autoimmune disease that no one seemed to be able to understand or control. After a few years of learning how to heal my body naturally, I hit another wall that caused me to crash and burn. My husband of 26 years walked out on me and our son, Nathan. Not only did he leave me heartbroken and our family ripped apart, but he also left me on the brink of financial disaster. 

Here’s the thing: life throws us challenges. That’s just what it does. Some will be small, and some will feel impossible. But there is no need...

Positive results only come from Positive Action, not from Fear.

Have you experienced fear in your life that has held you back from truly going after your dreams?

Is there a recurring fear that keeps arising in your thoughts and emotions?

Do you know that it is possible to learn how to manage your fears in a way that benefits you?

Well, get ready to learn how to spread your wings and begin to fly and feel the exhilaration of a life of freedom from fear. 

I am not a believer in the concept of jumping forward while gripped with fear. Susan Jeffers wrote a book entitled Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, but I say NO WAY! I suggest that you never move forward in fear. Never do things that you feel extremely fearful about. I want to suggest that you come more into alignment with understanding the fear and where it is coming from and do the steps to soften the fear first. Then, as you come into positive alignment with your goals and take positive inspired action, you have a better...

Are you still suffering over something that happened in the past? Are you dealing with thoughts and feelings of regret, guilt, shame, anger, hurt, or frustration? Do you feel hopeless about ever reaching a better place in life because you are holding on to memories of events that you feel you can’t change? Well, I’m here to tell you that you can change the past. It’s a matter of shifting your mind—thoughts and feelings—from a negative to a positive space. 

From Negative to Neutral

This process of changing the past begins with acceptance, which takes you from a negative to a neutral headspace or state of feeling (energy). Remember—the past is gone. We torture ourselves by fixating on something that no longer exists anywhere but in our own memories. Studies have shown that we can actually alter our own memories to fit the negative narrative in our minds. Acceptance begins by acknowledging that yes, whatever you’re struggling with did...